Treat yourself the way you treat others

We always show our love to others.

We do things for them to make them feel special.

We try our best to surround ourselves among them.

It is not wrong to treat others with love.

But sometimes we do all this while keeping the expectation. That, in return, they will also do something for us .

Sometimes, some would do, but some would not. And because we don’t get what we gave we get disappointed.

Then we say I did so many things for you . In return you may listen ,

Did I ask you to do ?

At this point we feel bad for ourselves because we thought that we would be treated in the same way.

Self-doubt arises, we think that there is problem in us , we are not good enough to be loved .

The very first thing where you went wrong was that you did things while keeping an expectation.

Do things selflessly , without expectations.

Everybody has their own way of expressing their feelings.

So , it is not necessary that everyone will treat you in the same way as you do .

Understand that you are important .

Do things for yourself, which you use to do for others.

Start making yourself happy by doing things for yourself rather than waiting for others to make you happy.

You are capable of making yourself happy .

Once, you start prioritizing yourself in life . Nothing will be there to disappoint you .

Start giving yourself the importance which you seek from others.

Treat yourself with the same love with which you use to treat others. Keep expectations from yourself, like what else I can do that would make me feel good and happy .

Believe me , that will be the day when you will feel loved ; your cravings will be satisfied.

That will be the day you will feel you are enough for yourself, you need no one to make you feel special.

Ultimately, you will start enjoying this new you who will be happy, loved and satisfied.

Always remember you are special , may be not for everyone but for you.

No one can define your worth but only you .